Charlotte Louise Fletcher

1997 - 2006
LocationClevedon
Age9 years
Cause of DeathEpilepsy
Date of Birth21/08/1997
Date of Death31/12/2006
Visitors8,186 since 25/01/2008
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Charlotte Louise Fletcher
31/12/2006
21/08/1997 - 9 years old
Clevedon,North Somerset
Charlotte has two sisters Steph & Dani.
Charlotte passed away during an epileptic seizure in her sleep.



Charlotte was a very bubbly happy little girl.She loved to dance,sing and generally entertain people. She couldnt do all the normal things children did ie: ride a bike,run,climb,play on swings,go swimming, etc..as this would end up with her having a seizure.Even a simple walk could trigger a seizure,consequently she spent a lot of time in her wheelchair. So to compensate she would spend her time watching her favourite Disney videos,she would watch them over and over again, (especially Peter Pan as she loved Tinkerbell so much), doing art and craft, puzzles, dressing up as a princess, singing and entertaining.

She tried not to let her illness affect her too much,but obviously would get upset sometimes because she wanted to be able to play like other children. Dont get me wrong at times she was a little monster like all children, but you couldnt stay mad for long as she would give you one of her cheeky little smiles and melt your heart again.

She would always notice if you had your hair cut, or new shoes on etc..and would always compliment you on it. Every morning while getting ready she would come into my room and say you look beautiful mummy and i miss her saying that to me. Charlotte was a very loving little girl and if you were unhappy or ill she would be the first to try and cheer you up. She didnt like anybody to be unhappy and she definatly didnt like it if anyone cried. She used to leave us little notes saying love you or hope you get well soon anything to let you know she was thinking about you. She was a very well liked and loved little girl and had many friends of all ages.She melted the hearts of everyone that she met.

Charlotte had her first seizure when she was just 7 months old, but it took until she was 2 years and 6 months old, and many hospital visits later that she was actually diagnosed with Epilepsy, although they still did not know what caused the seizures themselves. She had mostly Grand-Mall seizures, but was also known to have Peti-Malls (absences).

Charlotte had many investigations, scan , e, e ,g ,s, lumber punctures, spec scans etc. to try to discover what was making her have these seizures. She went through every medicine available for epileptics including the ones normally used in adult sufferers, but none of them seemed to have any effect.Charlotte as she got older was unable to do more and more of the normal things you would normally expect a child to do,without having an epileptic seizure.

When Charlotte was about 7 years old it was discovered that she had a very rare form of Epilepsy called Exercised Induced Temporal Lobe Epilepsy. This now explained a lot of things. This form of Epilepsy is so rare that not much is known about it and only 2 other people in the world have it. They are 2 boys in Australia,they have it in the left temporal lobe. Charlottes was in the right temporal lobe. Charlotte could have anything up to 17 Grand-Mall seizures in one day.

In october 2006 Charlotte had an operation to fit a Vegal Nerve Stimulator . This was over a course of time hopefully expected to reduce the amounts of seizures by sending extra electrical pulses to the brain(too technical to explain). Unfortunatly only 10 weeks later on the morning of New Years Eve 2006 Charlotte passed away, during an epileptic seizure in her sleep. They think that she had a Cardiac arrest but 13 months on we still await her inquest , so still have no real answers.
Charlotte had as far as i am aware 847 Grand Mall seizures in her short life time , so why was this one so different?

Charlotte will always be missed , loved and remembered by everyone who knew her. Her loss has had such an impact on everyone. Over 900 people, including all the Doctors and Specialists that had treated her, came to her funeral which was not held till March due to investigations by top doctors from Birmingham and Great Ormand St hospitals.
Charlotte was taken around clevedon in a pink coffin on a horse drawn carraige.Charlotte would have loved it. It was a funeral fit for a princess, our princess.The service was held at St.Johns church, then she was laid to rest at Clevedon Cemetary(known to the locals as St.Andrews).

She will be remembered for all her uniqueness, but most of all, for her ability to make us smile. We have held charity nights in Charlottes memory for the Epilepsy society via the CHARLOTTE FLETCHER MEMORIAL FUND and will continue to do so, helping everyone to keep her spirit and memory alive.

Charlotte you are thought about and talked about each and every day princess. Wherever we go you will always be with us.


Please use this site to remember Charlotte as we do.Try to remember the good times as she would. And most importantly remember her smile.

Please feel free to light a candle and leave a message whenever you like.

R.I.P.Charlotte, go play with the angels, do all you could not do on earth and keep watch over us all.
Love you forever and ever
Mummy,Daddy,
Steph & Dani
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her other web site is - R.I.P. CHARLOTTE-LOUISE-FLETCHER 21/08/97-31/12/06 on FACEBOOK


update
13h march2008- inquest results found that charlotte passed away due to natural causes from her epilepsy. she suffered a major fit.and as a result her body couldnt cope, her brain was starved of oxygen which then resulted in a cardiac arrest.
god bless darling charlotte, we think about you every day. our lives will never be the same again.love and kisses from everyone who had the privalige to know you . xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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They say there is a reason, they say that time will heal,
but neither time nor reason,will change the way we feel.
For no-one knows the heartache, that lies behind our smiles,
no-one knows how many times weve broken down and cried.
We want to tell you something, so there wont be any doubt,
your so wonderful to think about,but so hard to be without.
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Cathyfletcher Charlottes Mummy (Mummy)

4 weeks ago

In 5 weeks and 5 days you would have left us 5 years ago??? Not a day goes by that i dont think about you ,love you always princess , your loving Mummy xxxxxxx

Cathyfletcher Charlottes Mummy (Mummy)

November 21, 2011

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Little Children

August 21, 2011

02-05-2011

SORRY I'M MISSING CANDLES AT THE MOMENT PLEASE DONT BE AFFENDED IF I MISS YOUR ANGEL BUT BE ASSURD YOUR ANGELS ARE NEVER FAR FROM MY MIND & HEART I'M REALLY STRUGGLING TO COPE AT THE MOMENT XXXX

Laura Borthwick (Friend)

May 2, 2011

I WISH I COULD UNDERSTAND........
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I REALLY WISH THAT I COULD UNDERSTAND
THIS WAS NOT THE WAY YOUR LIFE WAS PLANNED
I WILL NEVER KNOW WHY YOU HAD TO LEAVE ME WHY YOU HAD TO GO
MY HEART STILL CRIES OUT FOR YOU BECAUSE I LOVE YOU SO
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SOME TIMES IT JUST FEELS LIKE I AM STUCK IN TIME
I WISH I COULD HOLD YOU IN THESE EMPTY ARMS OF MINE
MY TEARS FALL FOR YOU BOTH NIGHT AND DAY
IT FEELS LIKE YOU WERE STILL WITH ME JUST YESTERDAY
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SOME DAYS I JUST DO NOT KNOW WHAT I SHOULD DO
MY HEART IS SO BROKEN AND I AM MISSING YOU
I TRY MY BEST TO REMEMBER YOUR SMILE
EVERYTHING YOU DID MADE LIFE SO WORTHWHILE
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LIVING WITHOUT YOU IS NO EASY TASK
I TRY EVERY DAY TO WEAR THIS MASK
THE ONE THAT PEOPLE OUTSIDE WANT TO SEE
THE MASK I HIDE BEHIDE UNTIL I JOIN YOU FOR ALL ETERNITY..........
copyright© Rosalind Roberts 8/2/2011

Karen Mum To Adam (GTS Friend)

March 8, 2011

4 years ago today we laid you to rest xxxx

The price to pay for having someone special touch your life is the sadness and heartache you feel when they're gone. 4 years ago we laid my beautiful daughter to rest and still the pain is raw, words will never explain how we feel. Love you Charlotte and i will never stop missing you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Cathyfletcher Charlottes Mummy (Mummy)

March 2, 2011

They say there is a reason,

They say there is a reason,
They say that time will heal,
But neither time nor reason,
Will change the way I feel,
For no-one knows the heartache,
That lies behind our smiles,
No-one knows how many times,
We have broken down and cried,
We want to tell you something,
So there won't be any doubt,
You're so wonderful to think of,
But so hard to be without.


always in our thoughts princess xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Cathyfletcher Charlottes Mummy (Mummy)

October 7, 2010

HAPPY 13th BIRTHDAY CHARLOTTE.

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Thinking of you sweetheart,and your loving family.
Love Always Carol.xxx

Carol O'Brien (Friend)

August 21, 2010

A Special Little Girl

Dear Charlotte

I have read your story and my heart breaks for your parents and family. Unfortunately God decided for whatever reason never to let me have a baby of my own, so I had to fill the emptiness with dogs. About a year and a half ago I got a rescue dog called Charlie but I lost him last week to epilepsy. I never really knew much about it and could only follow the advise of the vets, but he was having cluster fits and acting so tired all the time. Could you please as such a special angel look after him for me, he will not know anyone and he loves company and can do so many tricks. Tell him that I love him, cos I know better than anyone else you will know what he went through. I hope I'm not asking to much and I will pray for you and your family until my time is done and I can thank you properly. All my love to you both. Dawn x x x

Dawn Harrison

July 23, 2010

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_____.\|/_.....PLACE THEM IN CHARLOTTE'S ARMS
____((( )))..... & TELL HER THERE FROM ME XXX

Laura Borthwick (Friend)

June 29, 2010
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