Charlotte Louise Fletcher

1997 - 2006
LocationClevedon
Age9 years
Cause of DeathEpilepsy
Date of Birth21/08/1997
Date of Death31/12/2006
Visitors4,286 since 25/01/2008
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Charlotte Louise Fletcher
31/12/2006
21/08/1997 - 9 years old
Clevedon,North Somerset
Charlotte has two sisters Steph & Dani.
Charlotte passed away during an epileptic seizure in her sleep.



Charlotte was a very bubbly happy little girl.She loved to dance,sing and generally entertain
people. She couldnt do all the normal things children did ie: ride a bike,run,climb,play on
swings,go swimming, etc..as this would end up with her having a seizure.Even a simple walk could
trigger a seizure,consequently she spent a lot of time in her wheelchair. So to compensate she
would spend her time watching her favourite Disney videos,she would watch them over and over again,
(especially Peter Pan as she loved Tinkerbell so much), doing art and craft, puzzles, dressing up as
a princess, singing and entertaining.

She tried not to let her illness affect her too much,but obviously would get upset sometimes
because she wanted to be able to play like other children. Dont get me wrong at times she was a
little monster like all children, but you couldnt stay mad for long as she would give you one of her
cheeky little smiles and melt your heart again.

She would always notice if you had your hair cut, or new shoes on etc..and would always compliment
you on it. Every morning while getting ready she would come into my room and say you look beautiful
mummy and i miss her saying that to me. Charlotte was a very loving little girl and if you were
unhappy or ill she would be the first to try and cheer you up. She didnt like anybody to be unhappy
and she definatly didnt like it if anyone cried. She used to leave us little notes saying love you
or hope you get well soon anything to let you know she was thinking about you. She was a very well
liked and loved little girl and had many friends of all ages.She melted the hearts of everyone that
she met.

Charlotte had her first seizure when she was just 7 months old, but it took until she was 2 years
and 6 months old, and many hospital visits later that she was actually diagnosed with Epilepsy,
although they still did not know what caused the seizures themselves. She had mostly Grand-Mall
seizures, but was also known to have Peti-Malls (absences).

Charlotte had many investigations, scan , e, e ,g ,s, lumber punctures, spec scans etc. to try to
discover what was making her have these seizures. She went through every medicine available for
epileptics including the ones normally used in adult sufferers, but none of them seemed to have any
effect.Charlotte as she got older was unable to do more and more of the normal things you would
normally expect a child to do,without having an epileptic seizure.

When Charlotte was about 7 years old it was discovered that she had a very rare form of
Epilepsy called Exercised Induced Temporal Lobe Epilepsy. This now explained a lot of things. This
form of Epilepsy is so rare that not much is known about it and only 2 other people in the world
have it. They are 2 boys in Australia,they have it in the left temporal lobe. Charlottes was in the
right temporal lobe. Charlotte could have anything up to 17 Grand-Mall seizures in one day.

In october 2006 Charlotte had an operation to fit a Vegal Nerve Stimulator . This was over a course
of time hopefully expected to reduce the amounts of seizures by sending extra electrical pulses to
the brain(too technical to explain). Unfortunatly only 10 weeks later on the morning of New Years
Eve 2006 Charlotte passed away, during an epileptic seizure in her sleep. They think that she had a
Cardiac arrest but 13 months on we still await her inquest , so still have no real answers.
Charlotte had as far as i am aware 847 Grand Mall seizures in her short life time , so why was this
one so different?

Charlotte will always be missed , loved and remembered by everyone who knew her. Her loss has
had such an impact on everyone. Over 900 people, including all the Doctors and Specialists that had
treated her, came to her funeral which was not held till March due to investigations by top doctors
from Birmingham and Great Ormand St hospitals.
Charlotte was taken around clevedon in a pink coffin on a horse drawn carraige.Charlotte would have
loved it. It was a funeral fit for a princess, our princess.The service was held at St.Johns church,
then she was laid to rest at Clevedon Cemetary(known to the locals as St.Andrews).

She will be remembered for all her uniqueness, but most of all, for her ability to make us smile.
We have held charity nights in Charlottes memory for the Epilepsy society via the CHARLOTTE FLETCHER
MEMORIAL FUND and will continue to do so, helping everyone to keep her spirit and memory alive.

Charlotte you are thought about and talked about each and every day princess. Wherever we go
you will always be with us.


Please use this site to remember Charlotte as we do.Try to remember the good times as she would.
And most importantly remember her smile.

Please feel free to light a candle and leave a message whenever you like.

R.I.P.Charlotte, go play with the angels, do all you could not do on earth and keep watch
over us all.
Love you forever and ever
Mummy,Daddy,
Steph & Dani
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her other web site is - R.I.P. CHARLOTTE-LOUISE-FLETCHER 21/08/97-31/12/06


update
13h march2008- inquest results found that charlotte passed away due to natural causes from her
epilepsy. she suffered a major fit.and as a result her body couldnt cope, her brain was starved of
oxygen which then resulted in a cardiac arrest.
god bless darling charlotte, we think about you every day. our lives will never be the same
again.love and kisses from everyone who had the privalige to know you . xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx


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it only takes a little space ;
to say how much we miss you ;

but it will take
all our lives ;
to forget the day we lost you
think of you always
LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH SWEETHEART XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Cathyfletcher Charlottes Mummy (Mummy) 2 weeks ago

I didn't have the privilege of knowing you.
My daughter has epilepsy and my friend's daughter passed away in her sleep, so I can only imagine the shock and sadness for your family and loved ones.
May their memories of you bring some comfort.
The website has given me a beautiful image of your life and you seemed so full of fun and laughter.
May you rest peacefully, beautiful little girl xx

Love from Gayle xx

Gayle Bulmer August 26, 2009

For Cathy

Do not stand at my grave and forever weep.
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and forever cry.
I am not there. I did not die

Charlotte will never be forgotten, for her memory lives in our hearts forever

you are only in the next room Charlotte till you meet your loving family again
take care angel goodnight god bless
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Catherine Chipperfield August 24, 2009

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( o_, )` __) `-._) SLEEP.TIGHT. X X

♥ Your life was a blessing your memory a treasure... You are loved beyond words and missed beyond measure.. ♥

Jennie Sim August 21, 2009

Happy Birthday Angel

Rest in peace!!

Shabnam Kausar August 21, 2009

The Loss of an Angel

I just stumbled across your website and boy did it make me cry, i never realised Epilepsy was a killer, and takes away beautiful children like Charlotte. I am running the london marathon 2009 for Epilepsy and would very much like to dedicate my run for Charlotte.

i hope to raise awareness and money for people effected by Epilepsy

R.I.P Charlotte, play with angels

http://www.justgiving.com/garyguinness

Gary Guinness February 14, 2009

Where is Heaven?
Is it somewhere in outer space?
Where does my loved one now dwell?
In some far and distant place?

Heaven is all around you...
It's as close as the air and love that surround you.
Heaven is everywhere... it's not just in the skies,
It's a spiritual dimension that can't be seen
Through human eyes.

How do I know my loved one is safe?
How do I know they are well?
How do I know they made it to Heaven?
Is there any way I can tell?

Your loved one is well in Heaven because
They're surrounded by God's love and care,
And I can promise you they made it to Heaven,
Because an angel guided them there!

Is there any way I can tell them how
Much they meant (and still mean) to me?
I'm not sure how to contact them, do you?
Know what Heaven's address can be?

Just talk... and know that they hear you,
Because you'll never be truly apart.
And Heaven's address? Well that's simple...
Just send thoughts care of your heart

Lynn Charlotte Walkers Mum December 31, 2008

THE DAY YOU WENT AWAY-

Two years today princess.
a poem for you!!!!!

THE DAY YOU WENT AWAY-

Today brings tears and memories
of sorrow and regret,
a day filled with such sadness,
its not easy to forget.

For everyones whose
lives you touched.
has always loved you so
and it was hard to accept,
that you ever have to go.

And so this message is for you,
especially to say
"this world lost someone wonderfull,
the day you went away".

love you with all our hearts,
nothing will ever fill the void
you left behind.
lots of love and kisses
mummy, steph and dani xxx
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Cathyfletcher Charlottes Mummy (Mummy) December 31, 2008

dear charlotte

♥The gift of life is given, then its cruelly snatched away♥
♥It leaves so many broken hearts & sadness, come what may♥

♥Especially now at Christmas, which you loved with all your heart♥
♥The thought of you not being here is tearing us apart♥.

♥And yet we must be thankful, for the happy times we spent♥
♥When love & laughter filled the air, before the magic went♥

♥The pictures are so clear today, of a happy smiling face♥
♥The kind of perfect loveliness, which no-one can replace♥

♥This little Christmas message is to let you know for sure♥
♥The love that’s felt for you lives on, and will forever more.♥

thinking about you even more this christmastime
lots of love mummy,daddy.steph and dani xxxxxxxxx
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Cathyfletcher Charlottes Mummy (Mummy) December 24, 2008

To a little angel

You looked like a beautiful little girl and my heart goes out to your mummy and family, may you be at peace little one.
Like you, my boy Craig was 15 died in his sleep due to an Epileptic seizure and he lives in heaven too.
God Bless you sweetie

Tricia, David, Craig's little sister and brother Kelly and Calum xxx

Patricia Morrison November 12, 2008
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